https://filedn.com/l1FiKjvpbAQzTGrUKmtb9j5/radialmonster/2010/08/01/overdue/ Personal news, poetry, music, ramblings! Tue, 03 Aug 2010 04:01:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.2 https://filedn.com/l1FiKjvpbAQzTGrUKmtb9j5/radialmonster/2010/08/01/overdue/comment-page-1/#comment-17120 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 04:01:55 +0000 http://radialmonster.com/blog/?p=378#comment-17120 Philious!
So nice to see you posting again. Oh yes, how odd it is. I hear people complaining about their spouses sometimes. I know marriage is tough, but I think it sounds grand. I know it is no fun to be “bitched at,” but I think we learn the most and grow the most from being around other people. When we are by ourselves, we have only ourselves and can only see our viewpoint. It sounds like M. has forced you to think about other ways of doing things and that can only cause growth. People are so different, though, and our background have so much to do with how we expect things to be. Just one suggestion: whatever she is doing for you, in a way, that is her way of telling you what she wants you to do for her. She is not intentionally doing this, but that’s the way us people tend to be. A book to read would be the Love Languages. Like for instance, if your spouse buys you lots of gifts, you might be thinking, huh? I don’t need this. Nice, but not necessary. I bet you dollars to donuts that means your spouse feels loved when they receive gifts. I love words of affirmation, so when I date someone I tend to say lots of nice things to them. When in fact, this is what I want. It’s something worth thinking about and talking about. I envy you, though. I hope to meet my sweet someone someday.

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